Sexuality

Who are you attracted to?

If you’re confused don’t worry. Some young people know right from the start but lots aren’t sure for a while if they’re gay, straight or bisexual.

Whatever your sexuality it’s worth knowing that

• being gay or straight is not a choice
• being gay isn’t an illness so it can’t be cured
• there’s no such thing as “normal”
• it’s not wrong to be gay
• no one can make a straight person gay or a gay person straight
  

 
And whether you’re gay, straight or bisexual, think about this when you next hear someone saying something unpleasant about or to another person:

• It upsets people when someone doesn’t like them just because of who they’re attracted to
• you have a right to be who you want to be.

Information & advice

If you want to know about gay friendly services, groups and places to go in Norfolk you can download "The Guide" from TEN's website.

Sorted OUT is a new booklet for young people in Norfolk who might be questioning their sexuality. It's crammed with useful information about coming out, feelings, relationships and – of course – sex. Click Sorted OUT to download (warning: this is a large download, if you haven't got broadband Internet it may take a while...)

Male & Under 25? Gay, Bi or Curious? Want to talk confidentially to someone about: Coming out, Bullying, Making friends, Homophobia, Telling friends and family, Sex? Then call for an confidential appointment with Simon @ MAP on 01603 766994

Still confused? Need to talk? Try the confidential helpline Lesbian and Gay Switchboard on 020 7837 7324.